Oh My


            What a week we just concluded. My week starts on Monday. Sunday is the grand finale of what is always an exciting eventful week. This past week has been one for the record books. I can never remember a week that was more overwhelming. I want to share a little with you.

            On Sunday of last week, my mom was able to come home from the hospital. That was good because as soon as she got home she started looking more like mom. Tammy and I took her heart healthy KFC for dinner (calm down, we got the grilled version). We stayed for a while before heading home.

            Monday, October 1st, was the beginning of a wild ride. I did hospital visits first thing Monday. 2 people from the church were there, the reasons are none of any ones business. The first was an elderly lady that is always a hoot to talk to. I was there when she chose her meals for the following day and she even made that funny. The next was a man about my age. He was having a tough go of it but had gotten some good news and was hopefully going home the next day. I always dread hospital visits but at the same time when I go, I enjoy talking with people. From there I went to the office and started preparing what would be the beginning of a new series on family. Tammy called to say that she had to work over and wouldn’t get off work till 6:30pm. I went home and fixed dinner and left it on the stove after Kelcey and I ate and then got ready for my basketball Life group. Jordan walked in and said I could ride with him and we headed to the church. Passed and waved at Tammy on the way and returned home around 9:15pm. Watched the Cowboys embarrass themselves and me and then I went to bed.

            I don’t want to bore you with all the nasty details that were anything but boring while they were happening. But needless to say by Thursday the energy tank was on empty and the crisis tank on full. Here are the cliff notes… Had a death of a grandmother of one of my church family on Wednesday morning. Went to school to pay money to my most despised company (Jostens) and then sat through a financial aid for college seminar where they told the group basically if we worked for a living and paid our bills that the government would not help us with our children’s college; yay! Had a couple’s marriage falling apart that I had just spoken with the week before (dishonesty kills, by the way). Had a very close friend, almost second daughter, get a bad report from the doctor and her baby is due this week. On Saturday I performed a funeral at 11am and wedding at 2pm.

            I actually got tired just writing that and remembering some of the feelings of inadequacies over the last week.  Then, I feel like that attitude carried over into my message yesterday morning and that really irritates me. You see, everyone has a part of their job that is the most important. No matter what happens, there is one part of your job that must be done right. The highest priority is the one thing that even if everything goes crazy, this one thing must be completed. For me, as a Pastor, it is delivering the message on Sunday. Don’t get me wrong, everything else is important also but I am responsible for sharing the Gospel and what it means to individuals and families each week. And when I feel I don’t do that right, it gets at me.

            I was feeling a little better after prayer and just putting my thoughts into this blog is somewhat therapeutic. In prayer I was reminded of my core values that I had committed to live by.

  1. I will live my life for Jesus Christ and do great things through Him.
  2. I will be a great (GREAT! Good is not enough) husband to Tammy first and then a great father to my two crazy kids. This includes leading and supporting them spiritually, emotionally and financially.
  3. I will make a difference in those around me.

 

As I felt God speaking to me this is what I believe he was reminding me of. If and when this gets out of order, people suffer. I suffer. Order is nice. Order is good. And this is my order. God may make adjustments to this order because He holds the top spot but no one else is allowed to change it.

            So with that, bring on the week.

 
Pastor Dad

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